In an effort to convince my husband’s classmate to join us on a school excursion, I told her it would be super easy and she could just like steal our itinerary. She looked at me like I was crazy, which I figured was due to the fact that I wanted her to travel with us. When, in fact, she was really shocked that I actually had one itinerary already thought out and ready to go many months in advance. She then proceeded to tell me about how much stress planning a trip…